Why…..?

I promise you, “Why” by Rema was absolutely my idea. He stole it from me. (Yesss! Still gat this. Was scared for a minute😂)

Hello fabfam! Been two months or thereabout since I last posted. I’ve been under fire for leaving my audience hanging. I got quite a number of questions as to why I stopped writing so I figured my first post-hiatus blog post would be a question tag. A quick rundown of the questions I got:

  • WHY DID YOU STOP WRITING?

I never stopped writing. I did create content a couple of times for other blogs but I took a pause on mine (Like yellow light pause, not red light stop if you get me). All the negativity in the world got to me badly and I suffered a motivation drain. Also, I didn’t want this site to be what Al-jazeera does (#depressesyou!). Amidst it all and unrelatedly, I got ill for a long period of time. I’m so grateful for my community of people. They reached out to me and I got to be reminded of why I started this blog in the first of place.

Btw cute traffic light, isn’t it?

  • WHEN ARE YOU POSTING NEXT?

Today! If you’re reading this, I already did.

  • HOW HAVE YOU TRIED TO PROCESS YOUR EMOTIONS TOWARDS WHAT’S HAPPENING AROUND THE WORLD?

Very interesting question. Writing is an external manifestation of your emotions. You must be able to able to process such emotions else it comes out really tacky. I’m sure this question is in relation to when I would write on all the tragedies occuring. Still another reason for the hiatus. It was too much to take in. I didn’t know how to put it all together. Only in January, I wrote on how 2020 was doing us “detty” already (Read here). If only we knew there was more, we would have asked a doctor to induce us into coma till 2021. Regardless, I’m grateful for the opportunity to be alive and I pray June would be a month of restoration.

Coming back to the question, I’ve thought about it and I desire for this blog to be a breath of fresh air. No, I’m not writing on Corona again, Mummy Qismah in the US. Neither am I going to be silent on the injustices in the world. However, I’m going to do it very wittily just to give someone hope that today marks the beginning of positive newness and restoration of all that has been lost.

  • WHY SO FINE?
Stahpeet…😊

I’m not sure why this made the list 😂 but, good genes, that’s why!

Thanks for all your feedback. I do not condone any form of injustice against humans or sexual assault. Read on my take on how women are treated inhumanely We must continue to live in love and fear of God and bitchhhh, expose that rapist today!

#JusticeForUwa

#JusticeForTina

#JusticeForGeorgeFloyd

#SeekConsent

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